100 Memoirs

DK Matai, a blogger and business executive I met in Geneva several years ago, sent out a message to his incredible world-wide network of friends that seemed like a pure gem of experience to me.  My father’s favorite saying was, “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing right.”  DK’s story is a more elegant, eloquent English equivalent.  DK’s response when I asked for his permission to reblog his post with him as guest was this:

Dear Shirley

Whilst there is nothing worthy within the autobiographical story, you are welcome to use it as you deem fit.  As far as describing me is concerned, there is nothing really worthwhile to describe…

All the best

DK

Not only is he a good writer with a good story, but he is humble too!  Here’s the URL for his post. I’ve also pasted it into this post below.

Whatever is rightly done, however humble, is noble!

A personal story…

London, UK – 30th March 2009, 08:11 GMT

As a young graduate engineer, nearly two decades ago, I met a charming man who had been the Chief Executive of Rolls-Royce. I had the pleasure of working with him on some global aviation projects with British, European, Canadian and American aerospace companies.

This distinguished Englishman was extremely bright, very knowledgeable and highly eccentric! Very English qualities those! He would do things carefully and methodically without making mistakes, especially where it mattered. Otherwise, if one were to watch him pour tea followed by a teaspoon of sugar, most of it was out of the cup, on the table and then on the floor!

If he would spot a mistake in his personal communication, he would always revert back and clean it off, and then proceed further. He would apologise profusely for any small mistake in handling human relationships and feelings especially in his written communication, which was always immaculate.

When we would write a message either to our own team of engineers or to any of the major aerospace groups at CEO level or in-between, he would always, always sit down, take out a fountain pen, and hand-write his message before entering it on to the computer screen. He would always begin, “Dear …., start off on a personal note, move on to the subject matter and end the message with a heartfelt comment and a personal touch.”

I once said to him, your emails and letters are like Monet paintings. We ought to frame them and hang them up on walls at the National Gallery! The letters were exquisite not only for their language but also for their personal touch and layout.

I asked him, “What is the genesis of this marvellous quality?” He said: “Quidvis Recte Factum Quamvis Humile Praeclarum!” in Latin.

Then, nonchalantly, he said, “Translate it!”

O God! Me and my big mouth. It was not possible to come out of this one easily. So mimicking his quality, I sat down slowly. I said, “Give me a minute!” I took out a pen and paper and wrote the Latin words on the left and English words on the right. I thought “Praeclarum” is “very clear” and “Humile” is Humble. “Factum” is “act” and “Recte” is “rightly”. So, I said: “Very clear humility comes from right action!”

He replied, one of the two founders of Rolls-Royce, had this Latin inscription engraved on his fireplace. It means:

“Whatever is rightly done, however humble, is noble!”