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		<title>Max DePree, Leader, Mentor, Memoirist</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago, my husband Stuart and I traveled to the &#8220;west coast&#8221; of Michigan, first to Saugatuck, where we had a lovely visit on a rainy day to the Wickwood Inn, and then to Holland, where Stuart explored the downtown and I visited Max DePree, the man who has been my mentor for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago, my husband Stuart and I<a href="http://www.shirleyshowalter.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/aug-22-20081.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-114" title="aug-22-2008" src="http://www.shirleyshowalter.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/aug-22-20081.jpg?w=300" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a> traveled to the &#8220;west coast&#8221; of Michigan, first to Saugatuck, where we had a lovely visit on a rainy day to the <a href="http://www.wickwoodinn.com">Wickwood Inn</a>, and then to Holland, where Stuart explored the downtown and I visited Max DePree, the man who has been my mentor for more than a decade.</p>
<p>I would never have thought of Max as a memoir writer had I not begun this blog.  Max has written three best-selling books on leadership and one on volunteer boards:  <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Art-Max-Depree/dp/0385512465%3FSubscriptionId%3D02E5W5871AJF7PMMMS82%26tag%3D100memoirs-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0385512465"><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51JRPMRGX2L._SL160_.jpg" alt="" /></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Jazz-Max-Depree/dp/0440505186%3FSubscriptionId%3D02E5W5871AJF7PMMMS82%26tag%3D100memoirs-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0440505186"><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51ci3kGRKqL._SL160_.jpg" alt="" /></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Called-Serve-Nurturing-Effective-Volunteer/dp/0802849229%3FSubscriptionId%3D02E5W5871AJF7PMMMS82%26tag%3D100memoirs-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0802849229"><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41WC3XN472L._SL160_.jpg" alt="" /></a></p>
<p>Those books contain personal stories from his years of leading the Herman Miller furniture company, his family life, and his service on nonprofit boards.  They exude a rare combination:  confidence, authority, humility, and accountability.  Max lives his philosophy of leadership, best exemplified by the title of this book:  <em>Leading Without Power:  Finding Hope in Serving Community</em>.  <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Leading-Without-Power-Finding-Community/dp/0787910635%3FSubscriptionId%3D02E5W5871AJF7PMMMS82%26tag%3D100memoirs-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0787910635"><img src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51J0XD0JQPL._SL160_.jpg" alt="" /></a>Max has been generous with his time.  He was the first mentor in my life to ask me the kind of questions I described in my last post:  personal, ambiguous, and anxiety-producing.  I look forward to our infrequent one-on-one meetings because I will inevitably be surprised by one of his questions and ponder them long afterward.</p>
<p>Max has written one book that is evidently out of print now.  It is a memoir in the form of a letter to his granddaughter Zoe.  Called <em>Dear Zoe</em>, the book describes the Max&#8217;s love for the premature baby born to his daughter, a baby so tiny that her arm fit inside Max&#8217;s wedding ring.  Max helped Zoe cling to life by gently stroking her tiny body while talking to her.  A nurse in the hospital told him,  &#8220;She has to connect your voice to your touch.&#8221;</p>
<p>Max will be celebrating an important birthday in a few days.  I won&#8217;t tell you which one it is, but if you guess it by looking at this picture taken in August, you will guess too low.<a href="http://www.shirleyshowalter.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/max-and-shirley-aug-22-20081.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-115" title="max-and-shirley-aug-22-2008" src="http://www.shirleyshowalter.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/max-and-shirley-aug-22-20081.jpg?w=200" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a> Max continues to connect his voice and his touch with his family and many friends.  My life has been immensely enriched by Max&#8217;s voice.  His questions echo in my mind.  His stories instruct my own.  His spirit inspires me to be a better person.</p>
<p>Happy Birthday, Max!</p>
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